Tīng bù tīng, zhěntou fēng.

聽不聽, 枕頭風。

Lit [Whether one wants to] listen or not, [there's bound to be] “pillow talk.”

Fig A man has to listen to what his wife says in bed at night whether he wants to or not. A man is sure to be influenced by his spouse's private opinions.

Note [See also zhěn biān gàozhuàng below.]

Topics COUPLES MEN OPINIONS PILLOW TALK SPOUSE WOMEN