君子宽而不僈，廉而不刿，辩而不争，察而不激，直立而不胜，坚强而不暴，柔从而不流，恭敬谨慎而容。· A gentleman is lenient but not easy-going; fair but not severe; eloquent but not quarrelsome; clear but not critical;straightforward but not arrogant; unyielding but not fierce;agreeable but not servile; respectful and cautious while calm.