对家duìjiā 1.四人玩牌时坐在自己对面的一方。{partner; person who sits opposite one in a four-player card game} 2.指说亲时的对方{other party in a proposed marriage; intended husband or wife}: 本家叔父给他提亲,～能力强,人品也好。{His uncle proposed a marriage to him; the girl is both capable and of high moral fibre.}