指子女对失去劳动能力或生活能力的父母不尽心尽力地赡养而父母死时却大肆铺张，大办丧事。含有贬义to arrange a lavish funeral for one's parents despite being uncaring towards them whilst they were alive

• 说到底，这是人们固有的“入土为安、薄养厚葬”观念在作祟，预设的前提就是必须要有一块土地来让亲人长眠。

  This is just a result of people’s desire to do well for their parents in the afterlife to make up for past neglect, but it is dependent on them owning a funeral plot for the family.