用手来回捏to fiddle with

• 捏弄着胸前的纽扣

  fiddle with the buttons on one's chest

摆布to manipulate

• 我们得自己拿主意，不能由着他们捏弄。

  We have to make our own decisions, we can't be manipulated by them.

私下里商量to discuss privately

参见：捏造[niēzào]