连 [correlatively with 不如 or 毋宁] rather than; better than: |
| 与其你去,不如我去。 Rather than having you go, it'd be better if I went. |
| 你与其坐车,不如坐船。 It's better for you to go by boat than by train. |
| 与其说是粗心大意,不如说是不负责任。 It's not so much carelessness as irresponsibility. |